Work-life balance today is complicated. Most Americans are pulled in multiple directions every day by commitments to their families, workplaces, and communities.
Many people have responded to the pressures of modern life by seeking ways to consciously simplify their routines and attitudes at home and work. “The goal of living a more simple life isn’t to arrive at a static point in your life but to become skilled at balancing your personal relationships, workplace issues, finances and other demands,” says Heather G. Mitchener, coauthor of The 50 Best Ways to Simplify Your Life.
Being in the moment
One way to simplify your life is to practice mindfulness—to slow down and recognize and appreciate the simple things in life. To be mindful instead of mindless, stay in the moment and be conscious of what you’re doing. “When we look ahead constantly, we not only rush through the less pleasant tasks, we also tend to hurry through the things we love to do, because we’re always thinking or worrying about what we have to do next,” says Ms. Mitchener.
A good way to practice being in the moment is to follow your breath, a technique that doesn’t require any special training. To breathe mindfully, take notice of your breaths and try to make them as calm and even as possible. Pay attention to each breath, letting thoughts fall away. “You can do this exercise any time you think of it,” says Ms. Mitchener. “Make it a goal to be mindful, in general, but also set aside short periods to practice. This will improve your ability to make mindfulness a habit. As you learn to live this way, you’ll feel more centered.”
Slow down
If you feel like you have too much information in your life, stop subscriptions to magazines, newspapers, or e-mail newsletters you rarely have time to read. Leave the radio and TV off unless you’re really listening to something that matters to you. And ask yourself these questions before you buy something: Do I really need it? How often will I wear or use it? Where will I store it?
Get organized
Begin by sizing up the problem areas in your home or workplace and making a plan of attack. Target an area that gives you the most grief. Your goal should be to clear out clutter that causes you to waste time.
Learn to focus at work. Multitasking can be an asset, but often the lack of focus it requires means you get less done in a day—or less done well. To increase your focus and break free from distractions:
- Begin your work day by prioritizing your tasks.
- Check email and voicemail at set times, rather than letting each new message interrupt you.
- Keep a calendar of your deadlines and obligations.
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